Lifes Riches

Where do I fit?


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“I’m starting this year a little more gently — so this first episode is landing on a Sunday, with another later this week, and then we’ll settle back into our usual rhythm.”

With a gentle start to the year and this Life's Riches Sunday episode (instead of the usual Thursday), Aishat reflects on creativity, belonging, and the quiet question that keeps returning: where do I fit?

Starting from moments of slowing down and drifting into creative work, this episode explores why creativity can be a place of rest rather than output, and how voice and identity are deeply tied to how we unwind and make sense of life.

Aishat speaks candidly about feeling out of place in professional and business spaces; as a Black woman, as a business owner, and as someone navigating different stages of life and age. From subtle exclusions in professional groups to generational mismatches in industry spaces, she reflects on what it means to crave community without wanting to contort yourself to belong.

This is not an episode about answers or solutions.

It’s an invitation to sit with the question, to notice misalignment, and to pay attention to where you can exhale.

Best Moments

“You’re not just networking, you’re translating yourself.”

“Too experienced for some spaces. Too reflective for others.”

“The question ‘where do I fit?’ isn’t about geography or age. It’s about energy.”

Key Takeaways:

  • Creativity can be a place of rest, not just productivity
  • Feeling out of place doesn’t always mean something is wrong; it can be information
  • Belonging that requires constant adjustment comes at a cost
  • Community isn’t about numbers or visibility, but about being able to exhale
  • Clarity can begin with knowing where you don’t fit

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About your host:

Aishat is a money coach, educator, and book lover with over 25 years of finance experience in the charity sector. Through her Life’s Riches platform, she helps people connect money with meaning, building clarity, calm, and confidence in their financial journeys. As a writer, podcaster, and educator, she weaves together personal stories, financial lessons, and life reflections to explore what it really means to live a rich life.

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