In this thoughtful conversation, Brian Ahearn—author, speaker, and expert in ethical influence—shares the powerful story behind his book Influence FROM Above. Inspired by a question from his daughter, Brian began exploring how the well-known principles of persuasion connect to biblical truth and how Christians can influence others in ways that are loving, honest, and eternal.

Brian explains the crucial difference between influence and manipulation, why listening is one of the most overlooked skills in relationships, and how God often works through ordinary moments we might otherwise miss. Through stories from his own life and from the fictional character John in his book, he reminds us that success isn’t measured by numbers but by faithfulness to what God asks us to do.

This episode will encourage you to pray specifically, extend grace to those who fall, and view every interaction as an opportunity to love people well. Whether you’re a parent, leader, business owner, or friend, you’ll walk away with practical wisdom for influencing others in ways that honor God and build lasting relationships.

In this episode you’ll hear:

*How a single question from Brian’s daughter sparked the idea for Influenced From Above
*Why influence is unavoidable and how to practice it ethically
*The danger of comparison and redefining success God’s way
*The power of listening before speaking
*Real-life stories of God’s timing and answered prayer
*Offering grace when someone disappoints or hurts us
*Brian’s new framework: “powerful, everyday opportunities to persuade that are loving and eternal”


To connect with Brian, visit https://influencepeople.biz/

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