In the Seat

Where I Shouldn't Be


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What happens when a leader’s presence starts affecting the outcome more than their intent?


This episode explores the tension between staying engaged and knowing when to step back. As leaders become more senior, it gets easier to stay involved in the name of helping, guiding, or staying informed. But involvement is not always neutral. Sometimes it adds value. Sometimes it changes the room in ways that limit candor, initiative, and growth.


The focus here is not on becoming distant or uninvolved. It is on recognizing that leadership changes shape over time. Early on, value often comes from doing. Later, value often comes from judgment, context, and restraint. If a leader stays too deep in the details, the organization may become more dependent, not more capable.


The real question is not whether leaders should mentor, decide, or remain accountable. They should. The question is whether being in the room, solving the problem, or inserting yourself into the process is actually helping, or just satisfying the instinct to stay useful in familiar ways.


A practical lens: are you stepping in because it will improve the outcome, or because you are uncomfortable not being needed there?

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In the SeatBy Matthew Horning