having and holding mixed emotions is an indicator of emotional maturity...

things are good and bad at the same time... approach them with the improv approach rather than True/False, wrong/right assignments

no adults are adultier than other adults...

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if it looks good "on paper", what does that mean about how you are feeling about it "off paper"?

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things you can count are not the only things that count...

practice refraining from explaining and ending defending. critiques are just critiques.

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importance and urgency are separate measurements that need not be connected

"nice guys finish last"... okay??? someone has to!

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Just a little reframe for discussing and interacting with Discomfort. It isn't inherently negative, and is actually the vessel to emotional growth and healing. Embracing discomfort and leaning in to what comes next is how we become the change we want to see.