Who am I as a woman. I certainly did not know when I was growing up in my twenties. And not to mention without any emotional support from the different women in my life. My mother. My stepmother. My Auntie, and my grandmother on both sides of my family. Therefore, in the back of my mind, I just kept on feeling inadequate, incompetent in a lot of the situations that I had found myself into. Thereby leading me straight into drugs.