Our lives are determined by our choices. What's important to us,  what we need to feel happy, joyful, peaceful, and alive. Sometimes we forget that and find ourselves making decisions that don't benefit us because we've decided to give our power away, to care about what others think, to lean into people pleasing, or fall straight into self-neglect. Whatever it is, stop it! Your life is your own. Remind yourself that what others think of you is none of your business and that no is a complete sentence. Trust your judgment and your gut and remember who you're living for.