🎙️ Pillow Talk – Episode 4

Title: Who Are You When You’re Not in Love?

Episode Length: 30 minutes

Host: [Your Host Name Here]

Hashtags: #SoloButSolid #PillowTalkNights #HealingEra #SelfLoveFirst

💡 Episode Summary:

In this raw and reflective episode of Pillow Talk, we’re getting real about identity outside of intimacy. What happens when the texts stop, the relationship ends, and you’re left with just… you?

“Who are you when you’re not in love?”

We explore how many of us have been conditioned to tie our worth to being wanted — jumping from one relationship to the next out of fear of stillness or solitude. But singleness isn’t punishment — it’s power. It’s the sacred space where your voice, preferences, and self-love take center stage.

💬 In This Episode, We Cover:

• Why so many people fear being alone
• How codependency shows up disguised as love
• Singleness as a season of self-discovery, not shame
• The difference between loneliness and solitude
• Red Flag 🚩: You panic at the thought of being alone
• Green Flag ✅: You’ve built a full life that doesn’t require someone to complete it
• Pillow Talk Confession: “I didn’t know what I liked to eat until I dated myself…”
• Playlist Drop: 🎶 “6:11” by T-sqizz

📣 Listener Takeaways:

• You are not hard to love — you’re just learning to love yourself first.
• Solitude is a space for reset, not regret.
• The most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with you.

🎧 Listen + Subscribe:

Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, YouTube, and wherever you tune in.

📲 Join the Conversation:

• Share your solo wins using #SoloButSolid
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Producer: DestinyShanee

Music Director: DrippyHogg

Show Director: Joe