Sometimes we can't control our circumstances. Sometimes we can control our circumstances but we just don't want to change them at the moment. It might not seem worth the effort. Or maybe it's just not the right time. We are going to look at an idea about, not just making the best of a bad situation, but are going to go one step farther to explore who it is that we want to be in the situation. There might be skills or personality traits that we want to have. Maybe a new attitude or perspective in that situation. How do we go about becoming that person that we want to be?