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Kylie Kassh, professional dominatrix of 17 years and content creator, shares her journey from accidental dom to lifestyle professional in this candid conversation about power dynamics, boundaries, and the business of domination.

• Discovered her dominatrix potential when a friend noticed her naturally commanding style with boyfriends
• Began her career working in a Chicago dungeon where she trained under experienced dominatrixes
• Learned her boundaries early when confronted with medical play involving needles during her first day
• Underwent an "initiation" that confirmed her purely dominant nature when she couldn't handle being restrained
• Explains the difference between lifestyle doms, switches, and subs in the BDSM community
• Shares her favorite fetishes including flogging, cross-dressing clients, tease and denial techniques
• Owns approximately 17 floggers ranging from inexpensive to $500 specialty pieces
• Discusses the massage fetish and how it represents a natural power exchange
• Reveals many clients are married men whose partners aren't interested in exploring fetishes
• Sets firm boundaries on certain practices while maintaining others, particularly avoiding "scat play"
• Plans to continue working indefinitely as "there are no age brackets in domination"
• Maintains separate personal and professional lives while acknowledging they sometimes overlap
• Provides consulting services beyond domination work through her business ventures

If you're interested in learning more about Kylie's work, follow her on Instagram at Goddess_kylie_kassh or visit her consulting business at Kashwealthfirm.com.

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