He was a bit of a chameleon so masculinity was always determined by who he was around at the time and this was incredibly dangerous. Cristine (iamcroe), our host, sits down with 32 year old Femi and we discuss how his father grew up without a father and how it impacted their relationship, lessons on manhood and why the bar is so low when it comes to what black women expect from black men.

Listen on as he answers this season's question, "Who Taught You How To Be A Man?"

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