Welcome to Episode Twelve with David Delgado

(David’s Dad Stats: Son - 4 weeks old) 

David and I have shared a few hours together every other Saturday morning since early this year, being a part of a father’s circle that meets virtually. Five or six of us come together to share tales and trials of fatherhood, to lend each other an ear and an open heart, and to bask in the good fortune of our roles as dads.

This conversation is rich with deep insights from my friend David. As a brand new dad myself,  it’s so fun (and relatable) to hear his take on the journey into fatherhood, how he felt leading up to the big day, and his impressions in the first four weeks of his experience. 

You’ll hear and see right off the bat the thoughtfulness that David brings to the role and to our exchange. David has a way with words and I’ve been in awe of his tempered nature, his deliberate way of tapping into his true wisdom and the depth of his senses. He pours his heart and soul into this conversation, baring the details of his childhood familial experiences, his personal journey of self discovery, and his amazing love with partner Jing. 

I can’t wait for you to enjoy this one!

Here are 10 big themes that we explore on Episode Twelve of WHOA DAD! GO DAD!:

1. Adjusting to New Roles: David discusses his anxiety and excitement about adapting to the role of a father and the changes it brings to his life and identity.

2. Health and Well-being of His Child: He is concerned about the health and well-being of his child, influenced by his own experiences with health issues and how they shaped his approach to wellness.

3. Maintaining a Strong Partnership: David emphasizes the importance of maintaining a strong and supportive partnership with his spouse amidst the demands of parenting. He worries about the potential stress that parenting can put on their relationship.

4. Balancing Career and Fatherhood: With a career in UX design and coaching, David is concerned about balancing his professional responsibilities with his new role as a father.

5. Emotional Development of His Child: He is particularly focused on the emotional development of his child, stressing the importance of creating an environment that encourages emotional expression and resilience.

6. Social Pressures and Expectations: David expresses worries about the social pressures and expectations placed on parents and children, particularly around traditional gender roles and societal norms.

7. Digital Age Challenges: He is concerned about raising a child in the digital age, particularly the impacts of technology on children's development and the risks associated with digital addiction.

8. Transmitting Values: David hopes to effectively transmit his values and beliefs to his child, worrying about how to do this effectively while allowing his child the freedom to develop their own identity.

9. Dealing with Past Traumas: He talks about his own childhood experiences and traumas, and he worries about how these might affect his ability to parent effectively and impartially.

10. Preparing for the Unknown: Lastly, David shares a general concern for the unknown aspects of fatherhood and the future, emphasizing the unpredictable nature of raising a child and the challenges associated with it.

Connect with David on Linkedin:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/daviddelgadoshanghai/

Enjoy!

-Dave Momper

Leadership Coach and Brand New Dad

www.thrivalconcepts.com 

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