"Do not put yourself forward in the king's presence" (Prov.25:6-14).
Rather, take the lowest position at the table. Humble yourself before Him.
For your place is not for you to take but for Him to give. Conduct yourself
with all lowliness and gentleness, bearing with one another in love (Eph.
4:1-6), that the King may give you glory in the presence of those at the
table with you.
"For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and
he who humbles himself will be exalted" (Luke 14:1-11). Is this not the
way of Christ? He is the one who took the lowest place, who humbled
Himself even to the point of death for us. He is now exalted to the highest
place at the right hand of the Father that penitent believers may be exalted
together with Him in the resurrection. To the humble at His Supper He
says,
"Friend, move up higher,"
giving you His very body and blood for
your forgiveness that you may ascend to take part in the great wedding feast which has no end.
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