Loving People the Way They Receive It

People often express love in the way that feels natural to them, but relationships grow stronger when we learn how the OTHER person best receives love.

We explore why and how to keep that fun in our life and relationships and why it's so important.

He's back by popular demand. Get some insight relationships from a child perspective. He may even slip in a joke or two.

On this episode we recap how the Couples Conference went and some of the tools we shared.

This Episode is going to ask the question What are you Really Fighting About?

Money doesn’t have to be a marriage minefield. In this episode, TJ & Kristen share simple, real-life tools to stop money fights and start working together financially.

Introvert vs. Extrovert: Loving Each Other Without Burning Out

Different energy needs don’t mean you’re doing marriage wrong. TJ and Kristen unpack how introverts and extroverts recharge, why it causes tension, and how couples can build daily and weekly rhythms that protect both connection and rest. Honest laughs, biblical wisdom, and simple practices you can actually use.

Starting over isn’t failure—it’s courage. In this episode of Wholehearted, TJ & Kristen sit down with a guest couple who are living proof that love can be rebuilt. Through real-world experience, they share what it takes to build a healthy second or third marriage—healing from the past, rebuilding trust, and choosing to move forward with honesty and hope.

Us vs. the calendar - how we choose margin together in a full life. This is about unity and peace, not performance or legalism.

Today, we’re doing something a little different—and a lot of fun. We’re flipping the script and getting parenting advice from someone who really knows what kids want… a 5-year-old!