Daniel C. Clark discusses the futility of asking "Why am I like this?" as it keeps individuals stuck in a mental loop without producing real change. He suggests that a more effective approach is to focus on the actions that maintain current patterns. Clark emphasizes that transformation involves unlearning behaviors and becoming aware of one's actions to create movement and insight. He asserts that true change requires action and behavioral adjustments, urging people to break free from repetitive thought patterns and choose different actions instead.