Most times it's not about commitment but reality of post-marriage. Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there? For some, it's lack of money and stability, for the greater many, there is a huge issue. Because men are realising that there is no benefit for them in a marriage. A man is basically gambling half of everything he owns on the fact that his woman will never leave him. Especially if he is already getting everything he needs from a woman without the marriage.

Most girls just want to use marriage and "escape" poverty and suffering. Times are getting hard, men have families to take care of, their mothers and siblings need them. Getting married to a girl from a poor home, will increase your responsibility x10.  That's because girls are not helping matter at all. Imaging all bills on boyfriend how would marriage be. I remember my last girlfriend told me to sell two plot of land that was given to me by my mum just because she need money to travel to Dubai which  I refuse & that's the end? Mathe says.

Most men truly want to settle down despite their social class but find it difficult cos of their failed past relationships; Their love were taken for granted so many have lost the ability to develop any emotional connection, while some don't have the maturity to settle down yet.

And with Lack of trust for the opposite gender becoming a norm, the modern day woman is at a grid luck as her biology ticks down.

Join the discussion by Uchechukwu Ajuzieogu on this episode of the 1on1 Podcast.