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Is Your Husband Secretly Gay or Bisexual?

Who would ever think a married man could be gay or bisexual? Because a man is married, people just naturally assume he has a happy normal relationship with his wife. This is often the charade married gay or bisexual men use to cover up their alternate identity. Some have relationships with women because they ultimately want to live the lifestyle of a heterosexual married man. Many want children and all the benefits that come with marriage, when in fact they are living a lie. Others are hoping that heterosexual marriage will change their sexual preference.

Not only should you know the truth in order to protect yourself from sexually transmitted and possibly life-threatening diseases, you deserve to know the truth so you can make a decision regarding the future of the marriage. If nothing were wrong with your marriage, you wouldn’t be wondering about the sexual identity of your husband in the first place.

Online Activities
Watch your husband’s online activities. If he is secretive about his online activities, he more than likely has something to hide. Married gay or bisexual men sometimes look for like-minded individuals on the internet.


Mysterious Phone Calls
If your husband receives mysterious phone calls from men never previously mentioned or those never introduced, they may be more than friends. To the average person this may sound like unreasonable paranoia, but hindsight is truly 20/20.
Lack of Sexual Desire
If sexual relations occur less than 10 times per year in a marriage, that marriage is said to be “sexless”. If your otherwise healthy husband lacks sexual desire, and he seems physically as well as emotionally uninterested, he might be more interested in those of the same sex.
Many women unwittingly married to a gay or bi-sexual man go on for years thinking they are somehow at fault, undesirable, or not worthy of love and affection. Their self-esteem often becomes crushed. Many of these women are married for years and feel neglected, unloved, and ignored before figuring out the truth.

Body Language
The eyes are said to be windows to the soul. If you watch someone’s eyes and expressions, you can often tell what they are thinking. If you suspect your husband may be gay or bi-sexual, watch his actions in public.

Accepting the Truth
Everyone has a right to live the lifestyle they chose, but it is very unfair to deceive someone and deprive them of the total commitment and love they deserve in a marriage. It’s unfair to take years away from someone who thought they were marrying the love of their life, when in fact they were marrying a stranger.

Accepting and facing the truth after confirming your husband is gay or bi-sexual is very painful.

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