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Why are some people Mean, Rude, Disrespectful
A careful observation of many rude individuals will reveal
People with low self-esteem often mask their own insecurities by flexing their verbal muscles, being rude and boorish, in an attempt to make themselves feel strong.
If you were brought up in a home environment where harsh words were the norm and it wasn’t unusual for objects to be thrown around in anger, clearly you’d see that as acceptable behavior.
People are overloaded and overwhelmed and politeness has been sacrificed on the altar of technology.
It’s so easy to get upset by rude comments, especially if they’re personal.
You’ll render their hurtful words powerless, though, if you choose to treat them as their problem, not yours. Remember that you have a choice in the way you react and responding like-for-like is rarely the best response.
Quite possibly they don’t even realize that they’ve been rude. You won’t know until you ask and the answer may surprise you!
Try to curb your instinctive response and stop yourself from retaliating. Two wrongs don’t make a right, and it’s not going to help anyone if you allow yourself to respond in the same vein.
BE WISE AND KIND SHOW YOUR LOVE TO ONE ANOTHER GOD BLESS
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By Dr. Char &DeeJayA careful observation of many rude individuals will reveal
People with low self-esteem often mask their own insecurities by flexing their verbal muscles, being rude and boorish, in an attempt to make themselves feel strong.
If you were brought up in a home environment where harsh words were the norm and it wasn’t unusual for objects to be thrown around in anger, clearly you’d see that as acceptable behavior.
People are overloaded and overwhelmed and politeness has been sacrificed on the altar of technology.
It’s so easy to get upset by rude comments, especially if they’re personal.
You’ll render their hurtful words powerless, though, if you choose to treat them as their problem, not yours. Remember that you have a choice in the way you react and responding like-for-like is rarely the best response.
Quite possibly they don’t even realize that they’ve been rude. You won’t know until you ask and the answer may surprise you!
Try to curb your instinctive response and stop yourself from retaliating. Two wrongs don’t make a right, and it’s not going to help anyone if you allow yourself to respond in the same vein.
BE WISE AND KIND SHOW YOUR LOVE TO ONE ANOTHER GOD BLESS