A Dope Black Dad

“Why Are We Still Surprised When Dads Nurture?” Ep. 28


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When my daughter was home sick with COVID, I stayed home with her all week — monitoring temperatures, giving medicine, and just being present. What surprised me wasn’t the responsibility. It was the reaction.

Why are we still surprised when fathers nurture?

In this episode, I reflect on the quiet assumptions we carry about gender roles, caregiving, and masculinity. We explore why nurturing has been labeled as feminine, why fathers are often praised for what’s simply expected of mothers, and what it means to expand the emotional range of manhood.

This isn’t about competition or replacing mothers. It’s about recognizing that nurturing isn’t gendered — it’s human.

Because maybe the real evolution of manhood isn’t becoming harder.

Maybe it’s becoming fuller.

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A Dope Black DadBy Marcus A Smothers