The Femme Cast

Why Chasing Love Pushes It Further Away (And What To Do Instead)


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Have you ever felt like the harder you chase love, the further it seems to run from you? Like every time you try to prove your worth, convince someone to choose you, or hold on tighter, they only slip further away? And faster.

In this episode of The Femme Cast, we’re diving deep into the energetics of chasing, why it never works, and how this pattern is actually by divine design—pushing you toward the real lesson or pain you’ve been avoiding. Because the truth is, every time you run after someone, you’re not just chasing them… you’re running from yourself.

We'll talk about: 

  • Why anything that is pursued instinctively moves away (and how this plays out in relationships)
  • The subconscious craving for external validation and how to break the cycle
  •  How your relationships mirror your inner wounds, forcing you to confront the parts of yourself you’ve been avoiding
  • How moving through your emotions rather than running from them transforms your energy field and makes you effortlessly attractive

If you’ve spent years chasing unavailable love, waiting for someone to finally choose you, or feeling stuck in the exhausting cycle of wanting what doesn’t want you back—this episode is for you. We’re tearing down the illusions and getting to the core truth of what actually makes you magnetic.

🎧 Press play now. The love you seek is already seeking you—but first, you have to stop running.

Ready to step into your Magnetic Love Era? If so, The Magnetic Love Story Manifestation Method is now open for enrollment.
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