In short answer - because everyone’s work looks differently than yours. Everyone is fighting their own mental, physical or spiritual battle. Not everyone is necessarily trying to work on it though and that’s okay. Everyone is entitled to their own healing or.. not healing journey. Even if we absolutely want them to. I asked this question to myself when I first started my healing journey 3 years ago. I felt so lonely and I really wanted my partner to join me on healing my inner child, attending workshops, going to therapy, reading all the personal development books… and we did. But what I noticed was I was putting a lot of pressure on him to do it with me. When really, healing is a personal journey. Can our partner do the work with us? Absolutely. Can it bring you closer? Absolutely. But if you’re looking for big changes that bring identical awakenings, I don’t believe you will. You can’t change anyone but you. You can’t expect anyone to do the same, identical work that you’re doing. Do it for you. Invite your loved ones, but don’t expect. Seek out community that does align with your work, whether that’s fitness, mental health or wellness. Lastly, notice if you feel judgment or shame when you open up to your loved ones about your work. If you do, it’s okay to love them from a distance until you’re more comfortable and confident in what you’re working on. Keep going 💞 xx