During our ten-year fertility journey, I felt a deep, burning sense of injustice that life was abandoning me or working against me. In this candid episode, I explore the habit of taking everything personally (from missed opportunities to traffic jams) and the profound shift that came with a different question: what if life isn't personal at all? What if it's simply neutral? This reframe didn't just change how I saw life's difficulties; it led me to a deeper version of myself I hadn't known was there.