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Why do I sometimes react so strongly to my child's behavior, and how can I get better control of my emotions as a parent?


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Becoming Self-Aware as a Parent

Why do I sometimes react so strongly to my child's behavior, and how can I get better control of my emotions as a parent?

If you've ever surprised yourself with the intensity of your reaction to your child's behavior, or found yourself yelling when you promised you wouldn't, this episode will help you understand what's really happening - and how to change it.

In this deeply honest and transformative episode, we explore the crucial but often overlooked foundation of effective parenting: your own emotional self-awareness. You'll discover why parenting has a unique way of triggering our own unresolved emotions and childhood experiences.

What You'll Learn:

  • Why your strong reactions might not actually be about your child's behavior at all
  • The neuroscience behind "flipping your lid" - for both you and your child
  • How your brain development affects emotional regulation (hint: it's not fully developed until age 25!)
  • Practical techniques for recognizing your emotional triggers before they take over
  • The difference between your prefrontal cortex (thinking brain) and limbic system (emotional brain)
  • Why investing in your own personal growth is essential, not selfish
  • Real strategies for developing mindfulness and emotional awareness in daily parenting


Honest Topics Covered:

  • The difficult truth that sometimes parents don't like their child's personality (and why that's normal)
  • How childhood experiences and parenting patterns get passed down through generations
  • Why admitting your struggles is the first step to change, not a sign of failure
  • The importance of getting your "ego out of the way" as a parent


Key Takeaways:

  • You can't teach emotional regulation if you haven't learned it yourself
  • Self-awareness is the foundation for breaking generational patterns
  • Recognizing when you're about to "flip your lid" is a learnable skill
  • Taking time for self-reflection isn't selfish - it's essential for your child's wellbeing


This episode includes practical exercises for developing self-awareness, techniques for staying calm under pressure, and honest discussions about the emotional challenges every parent faces.


Perfect for: Parents who struggle with emotional reactions, anyone wanting to break negative parenting patterns, or those ready to do the inner work that transforms families.

Based on hundreds of hours of research and expert interviews. Also available as a complete free course at learningsuccess.ai and as a video documentary on Amazon Prime.


Free Learning Success Emotional Intelligence Course

https://learningsuccess.ai/course/documentary-overly-emotional-child/

The Overly Emotional Child on Amazon Prime

https://www.amazon.com/Overly-Emotional-Child-Liz-Weaver/dp/B08M3C8P6B

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