I look around at the world around me, and I see people living their lives in all sorts of relationships. Some are in seemingly happy relationships, while others are in obviously unhappy relationships. And I have to ask myself, why is this? Why do some people get so lucky as to find the right mate, while others are duped and disillusioned by the torment of abuse, whether it is mental, verbal, and emotional, or even physical? In this episode we will look at the reasons for this and how it’s not just a “luck of the draw”, and what we can do to transform our relationship “luck”.