Send us a Text Message.We all want to feel loved and be in a loving relationship.  But for some of us, no matter how hard we try, we keep pushing people away.  And all our efforts to be in a relationship seem to just fall apart.In this episode, I'll explain why you may be pushing people away.  And I'll help you find ways to let the people you love into your life.My name is Jacob Brown, and I'm a Couples Therapist in San Francisco.  To learn more, visit:My WebsiteMy Blog

103.  Why do you keep pushing people away?

Everyone wants to be loved, that’s a universal desire.  But sometimes our relationships can be confusing, frustrating, or even drive us crazy.  Sex, Love, and Couples Therapy will help you understand what’s happening in your relationship, and help you and your partner feel closer, more connected, and more loving.My name is Jacob Brown, and I’m a Couples Therapist in San Francisco.  To learn more about me and my practice, visit my website www.jbamft.com.  And I hope you enjoy the show!

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103. Why do you keep pushing people away?

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