This sounds like I am taking all the fun out of marriage by associating it with a "habit".

But I believe it's the answer to a common problem, a problem I believe you want to avoid: an unhappy marriage.

The lie is that if you follow heroically spiritual practices, all of which are, indeed, good, you will have a great marriage.

The issue isn't that following such conventions are bad.

It's that they don't take into account how broken two people can be.

Listen in to find out what why I think my approach to The Marriage Habit leads us through the thick of things into the promised land.

https://themarriagehabit.com/bible-study-1/why-have-a-marriage-habit/