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Why Does Going Home for Christmas Feel Like Therapy?

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Trauma, family dynamics, and holiday stress collide in our 2025 Festival Special of Trauma Agora, as we talk about how to set boundaries and the nightmare that is driving home for Christmas.

 

Think awkward dinners, passive-aggressive siblings, reflecting on the year's losses, family hierarchy shifts, and the emotional exhaustion of trying to be “normal” while everyone else loses their sh*t.

 

We cover:

  • Why Christmas turns even the most stable adults into children again
  • Stepping into parentified roles when your parents fall apart
  • The weird, triggering nostalgia of family traditions (and how to survive them)
  • How grief, infighting, and tiny houses amplify trauma
  • Setting boundaries in a house full of chaos
  • Leaning on your partner or sibling to stay sane
  • Humour, chaos, and the absolutely ridiculous things families do at Christmas

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    Plus: a mix of genuine reflection, uncontrollable laughter, and some very chaotic holiday survival tips.

    Q&A:

    Q: How do I survive going home for Christmas?

    A: Wine, boundaries, humour, strategic naps, and leaning on your support crew.

    Q: What if my parents regress me into a child again?

    A: Recognise the trauma, enforce your boundaries, laugh at the chaos, and survive.

    Q: Can I create my own holiday rituals?

    A: Absolutely. Bond with friends, carve out your own traditions, and enjoy the chaos on your own terms.

     

    How do you find going home for Christmas? Let us know in the comments!

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