Okay, so what's with the video games? Wasn't your husband supposed to leave those behind in his childhood? Shaunti Feldhahn and Brian Goins, along with special guest Ryan Guinee of FamilyLife, discuss the unique challenges gaming presents in marriage. Every wife married to a gamer knows the backlash if she confronts this sensitive area, but there are practical things you can do to make the conversation easier and hopefully get some win/win boundaries set in your home.
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 	For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com.

9: Why Does My Husband Choose Video Games Over Me?

We got married because we thought we’d be better together rather than apart. So why is it so easy to feel isolated from your life-long partner? Host, author, and fellow married pilgrim, Brian Goins, tackles the relational pitfalls, from the trivial to the tragic, that move couples towards isolation rather than experiencing the real benefits that come from saying “I do.”

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Could your sex life be missing the point? Dr. Michael Sytsma talks about why we have sex…and the key to wow-level sex that changes everything.
Show Notes and Resources
 	Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions.
 	For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com.
 	Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference.

8. Is Your Sex Life Missing the Point?

Has your married sex coasted into the blahs? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma's got solutions to keep you both captivated in the bedroom.
Show Notes and Resources
 	Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions.
 	For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com.
 	Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference.

7. When Sex is Boring

Sex can be painful in more ways than one: from trauma, to physical pain, to porn. But these don't need to doom your relationship. Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma offers ideas to transform hurt to eventual healing and wholeness.
Show Notes and Resources
 	Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions.
 	For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com.
 	Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference.

6. When Sex is Painful: Dr. Michael Sytsma

Initiating or declining sex: It's tricky. Are your signals clear to your spouse? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma helps you with “not tonight” and “yes, please.”
Show Notes and Resources
 	Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions.
 	For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com.
 	Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference.

5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael Sytsma

Wondering how to keep your married sex life sizzling—or just move around conflict or hurt? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma helps you troubleshoot.
Show Notes and Resources
 	Download our app to listen to Brian Goins, Michael Sytsma and Shaunti Feldhahn as they cover more questions.
 	For more from Shaunti Feldhahn, visit Shaunti.com.
 	Grab Shaunti and Dr. Sytsma's book in our shop: Secrets of Sex and Marriage: 8 Surprises That Make All the Difference.

9: Why Does My Husband Choose Video Games Over Me?

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