In this conversation with Benjamin Siter, I share how overcoming pornography addiction forced me to confront a deeper issue: my own passivity.

We discuss masculinity, virility, marriage, leadership, desire, responsibility, and why many men unknowingly sabotage the very intimacy they long for.

At the heart of the discussion is a simple but demanding idea:

Own everything.

Not because your wife is always right. Not because every problem is your fault. But because responsibility is where a man's freedom begins.