Work with me 1-on-1: https://www.stumurray.com/coaching-applyIf you're crushing it professionally but walking on eggshells in your relationship, this isn't about working less or trying harder. The same performance-based identity that built your career is quietly destroying your intimacy. And you can't fix it with another productivity hack.This video breaks down why successful men struggle most at home, the hidden mechanism keeping you stuck even when you're "doing the work," and the exact framework for becoming the grounded leader your family needsTimestamps00:00 Why successful men fail at home 01:08 You can’t perform your way into intimacy 03:33 The 4 pillars every trustworthy man builds 05:05 Emotional capacity: stop fixing, start listening 08:27 Consistency: how trust is actually built #relationshipadvice #masculinity #selfimprovement #marriage #menshealth