This topic might get a little touchy, so let me explain!!! There are layers to this answer so put the judgey ears down and let me do the talking (not that there's any other way to it). Between middle school assumptions, early 20's judgment calls, and mid 20's what if's ...I get personal as to why motherhood has always been far away from my radar. I know I will have kids one day, but this is the real reason why I don’t  have them.....yet.