Why do we ignore the bladder… until the exact moment it refuses to be ignored? In this pre-Thanksgiving episode, Dr. Stephanie Hack is joined by expert urogynecologist Dr. Charelle Carter-Brooks to break down the bladder symptoms that sneak up on women during perimenopause, postpartum, and the busy midlife years. They talk urgency, leaks, “mom jumps,” nighttime peeing, and the pelvic floor habits we were never taught — including the surprising thing most women do on the toilet that actually makes their symptoms worse. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this normal?” this episode is your clarity.