Disclaimer: don't get us wrong, we're SO incredibly honored to be asked to be part of our friends' special days, but you know what isn't so special, THE COSTS. Thanks to the commercialization and norms of wedding culture and our lovely friend Pinterest, things are getting more and more extravagant from the dresses, the bach parties, the gifts, and everything else that comes with saying "yes" to being part of someone's special day...