Finding meaningful friendships is certainly in the upper echelon of the most difficult and most worthwhile efforts an adult can set their mind to. God crafted us human people for relationship with himself and for relationship with other human people. God in His very essence IS a relationship between the Father, Spirit, and Son. Why then is friendship so difficult? Also what should I even be looking for in a friend. About 5 years ago when I moved to New Hampshire I made some personal discoveries on this front.