Transformation is a process. Philippians 1.6 - Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. We don’t transform ourselves. That is the Spirit’s work. But here is our part. We keep pace with Jesus - that is when the burden is light. We make adjustments as he points them out. And we continue to love God and love people. Honestly, it doesn’t always make sense. But God works as we are obedient. Transformation comes through obedience.