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Why Leaders Eat Last: Simon Sinek


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In this in-depth talk, ethnographer and leadership expert Simon Sinek reveals the hidden dynamics that inspire leadership and trust. In biological terms, leaders get the first pick of food and other spoils, but at a cost. When danger is present, the group expects the leader to mitigate all threats even at the expense of their personal well-being. Understanding this deep-seated expectation is the key difference between someone who is just an "authority" versus a true "leader."



3:30​ Happiness breakdown (4 chemicals) 5:53​ 1) Endorphins 7:16​ Importance of endurance 7:59​ 2) Dopamine 8:19​ Dopamine is to make sure get stuff done 9:10​ Goals must be tangible - we have to see the goal to stay focused 10:17​ Dopamine is dangerous when unbalanced 15:07​ Feel safe 15:40​ In our organization, danger isn't a constant it is a variable 17:05​ The responsibility of leadership is 2 things: 1) Determine who gets in and who doesn't 2) how big do we make the circle of safety 17:33​ Great leaders extend safety to the outermost of the org 17:53​ 3) Serotonin - leadership chemical 19:30​ Trying to enforce relationships 22:22​ Value of group-living 22:28​ Being alpha comes at a cost 26:01​ The cost of leadership is self-interest 27:15​ Makes you feel safe 27:34​ 4) Oxytocin 29:03​ Businesses aren't rational, it's about feeling safe. "It's human -- physical touch" 29:27​ "Human bonds matter" 29:29​ Act of human generosity 32:19​ Leaders spend time/energy not money 37:30​ You have to make sure you can trust others as leaders because you won't have time to help everyone 38:47​ Cortisone - the feeling of stress and anxiety 40:59​ Needs to shut down during times 41:42​ Cortisone inhabits oxytocin 42:18​ "Our jobs are killing us.. leaders are responsible" 43:12​ Leadership is a decision, a choice.



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The Wisdom Daily šŸ¦‰By Medardo Magallanes Lazarte Jr.