Most high stakes conversations collapse because we enter them from a reactive place: frustrated, charged, and looking to offload our hurt. The problem is, the other person immediately feels closed off or attacked, and the conversation never gets to what you actually want.

In this video, I’ll show you how to reset your intention before you speak, so you invite the other person into a conversation they actually want to have. This is how you move from tension and distance to clarity, connection, and real resolution.

What You’ll Learn

• The difference between a reactive intention and a clear intention
• How to recognize when you’re too charged to enter a conversation
• A practical way to invite someone in so they feel part of the outcome
• Why consistency with this approach builds trust and new patterns
• A question to ask yourself that prevents defensiveness before it starts

Why Listen?

If this is your first time here, welcome. I’ve spent years working with leaders, teams, and couples on the kinds of conversations that decide what happens next.

Most people avoid those moments. Or they walk into them with good intentions but no skill, and it blows up. What I share here comes straight from the real work: the messy, tense, uncomfortable conversations that actually change things when you handle them right.

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My hope is that what you pick up here helps you sharpen your communication, and with it, the quality of your business, your relationships, and your life.

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