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If you’ve ever felt disappointed with God, frustrated with church, or tempted to quietly slip out the side door, John 6 puts words to what’s happening under the surface. We talk about the “vending machine” version of faith where we show up, pay our dues, and expect Jesus to deliver the outcome we want. When life doesn’t cooperate, that transactional approach can turn into offense, burnout, and eventually deconstruction.
Pastor Ryan and Pastor Jared unpack why so many people stop attending church by age 30 and why the internet can feel like an easier place to process doubts than a local community. We make the case that questions are not a threat, they’re an invitation. Doubt can take you down a rung or lift you toward intimacy with God, depending on where you bring it and who you bring it to.
We also lay out five common reasons people walk away from Christianity: wanting provision without Jesus, wanting a movement without obedience, craving comfortable teaching, demanding Jesus on our terms, and choosing bread over a cross. Along the way, we talk about consumerism in the American church, what it means to “major on the majors,” and how to be a safe person for friends who are struggling without replacing Scripture with opinions.
If you’re deconstructing, our challenge is simple: do it here. Stay connected, ask the hard questions, and let God rebuild what’s shaky on a foundation that lasts. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s wrestling, and leave a review so more people can find help and hope.
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If you’ve ever felt disappointed with God, frustrated with church, or tempted to quietly slip out the side door, John 6 puts words to what’s happening under the surface. We talk about the “vending machine” version of faith where we show up, pay our dues, and expect Jesus to deliver the outcome we want. When life doesn’t cooperate, that transactional approach can turn into offense, burnout, and eventually deconstruction.
Pastor Ryan and Pastor Jared unpack why so many people stop attending church by age 30 and why the internet can feel like an easier place to process doubts than a local community. We make the case that questions are not a threat, they’re an invitation. Doubt can take you down a rung or lift you toward intimacy with God, depending on where you bring it and who you bring it to.
We also lay out five common reasons people walk away from Christianity: wanting provision without Jesus, wanting a movement without obedience, craving comfortable teaching, demanding Jesus on our terms, and choosing bread over a cross. Along the way, we talk about consumerism in the American church, what it means to “major on the majors,” and how to be a safe person for friends who are struggling without replacing Scripture with opinions.
If you’re deconstructing, our challenge is simple: do it here. Stay connected, ask the hard questions, and let God rebuild what’s shaky on a foundation that lasts. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s wrestling, and leave a review so more people can find help and hope.
Support the show
THANKS FOR JOINING US!
Visit afreshwind.org for even more content and resources to help you take steps towards Jesus and discover more in Christ.
DOWNLOAD THE FRESH WIND APP
With the A Fresh Wind Church app, you can now take the WIND wherever you go! Access sermons, articles, videos, resources and more to help you discover more in Christ.
PLAN YOUR VISIT
We know it can be a little weird or even awkward visiting a church for the first time. That's why we created Plan Your Visit. We want to make your first visit as easy as possible, and actually take time to get to know you and your family. Plan Your Visit now to schedule your visit by letting us know you're coming. We will treat you like family from the moment you arrive.
MAKE A DONATION
Give today and help us continue bringing new content each and every week! We're so grateful for your generosity. Click the link below or simply text any amount to the number (844) 620-5380.
DIG DEEPER
Looking for even more content to help you learn and apply this week's message? Subscribe to the Pastor's Blog! New posts are available each Friday at 7am.
Support the Show