Summary

In this conversation, Ruben Cortez discusses the emotional challenges of church planting, particularly the departure of members. He emphasizes that some individuals are only meant to be temporary supporters, akin to scaffolding in construction. Ruben encourages church planters to view these departures as part of God's plan for growth and to focus on the members who remain. He highlights the importance of gratitude and investing in loyal members, while also recognizing the need to adapt to change as a natural part of ministry.

Takeaways

• Some people are only meant to be with you temporarily.
• Losing members can help your church grow stronger.
• Scaffolding in ministry serves a temporary purpose.
• People leave for various reasons, often unrelated to leadership.
• Don't take it personally when people leave.
• Good people can be replaced, opening doors for new opportunities.
• Every person who leaves has left a mark on your journey.
• Gratitude is essential, even during transitions.
• Focus on the committed members who stay.
• Stay grounded and keep your eyes on God's vision.