Even though some may have never picked up a bible- the average Black man can quote verbatim on how women are supposed to follow a mans lead and came from his rib; but develop selective memory about the part where God stated that a Man was responsible for the land, women, and children- and that he should work by the sweat of his brow .

The Black man can no longer pacify himself  by using the excuse that all Black women just want head of household, without realizing that many Black men willfully left their home for one reason or another. And that some women had to make a choice: either pick up  the slack a man left behind  to survive, or die!

Many Black men have a mentality that teaches them to only worry about their life- and not that of their children's children -children. Because many Black men's father never worried about their  lifestyle up until and after adulthood nor the financial situation they leave their children in.

If Black men could  understand that the most important part of his life is not only when he is still  living, but decisions he makes that will benefit or effect his children's lives more than a 100 years into the future. It is only then, can the Black Man truly understand the significance and the meaning behind the reasoning of him needing to become Head of Household.

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