After all the damage that was said and done, they want to keep you as a “friend”, failing to mention the reasons why. Narcissists are known for keeping a harem (group of people sharing one person) of their exes in a friend zone as a form of “tangible” use. They use a friendship as a cover up for their REAL agenda, which is to use you whenever and however way they can; especially if supply has reduced or they are yet again bored with whom they are involved with.
Narcissists have a number of their own selfish reasons, but the main outcome is SUPPLY! Narcissists can be men or women and have different ways they go about their agendas. Use discernment at ALL times