Better Relationships Through Research

Why “Tough Love” Fails and What Actually Works


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In this episode of Better Relationships Through Research, Daniel sits down with renowned educator, author, and therapist Dr. Linda Metcalf, PhD. With decades of experience in both clinical settings and public education, Linda brings a refreshing, compassionate lens to therapy and school systems alike.

Together, they explore:

✅ The origin and power of Solution-Focused Narrative Therapy

✅ How to engage neurodivergent clients and couples using postmodern approaches

✅ The essential role of language, curiosity, and emotional safety in school settings

✅ Why teacher burnout affects students—and how to rehumanize classrooms

✅ Her work training entire schools to shift from punishment to curiosity and connection

✅ What we can learn from the “throwaway kids” who thrive when given a voice

✅ Her belief that resistance doesn’t exist—only the need for more flexible therapists

Whether you're a clinician, educator, parent, or simply someone curious about reshaping systems for better connection, this conversation is rich with heart, strategy, and hope.

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