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Why We Fail to Change — And How to Fix It
Want to change, but find yourself stuck? https://www.getinthefight.club/7 - Want to change but not sure how or what to do? Stop guessing and “trying harder” and, instead, get this FREE 7-Day Challenge delivered to your inbox to help you learn how to break bad habits, build better ones, and change - for good! You don’t have to stay stuck! You can become the man God meant for you to be: a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus!
This episode reveals the number one reason most men’s change efforts fail—and gives you three practical questions that turn vague intentions into real transformation.
Brief Summary
In this episode, Nate unpacks why so many Christian men fail to change, even when they deeply want to. The problem isn’t lack of desire—it’s lack of clarity.
Using a simple football analogy and biblical wisdom, Nate walks through three powerful questions that help you turn blurry hopes into concrete strategies.
You’ll discover how to move from “trying harder” to actually following through.
Key Takeaways
Clarity beats intention. Good intentions aren’t strategies. Most men fail to change not because they don’t want to, but because their plans are too vague.
Three questions create clarity:
Real-life examples show how to apply this to fitness, Bible reading, sexual purity, and gratitude. Simplicity prevents overwhelm, and specificity drives execution.
Habakkuk 2:2 shows the power of writing a clear vision so you can run with it.
Timestamps / Segment Guide
00:00 — Introduction + the quarterback analogy
02:30 — The real problem: vague change plans
04:45 — Why intentions and motivations aren’t enough
06:15 — The three clarifying questions: How, When, Where
08:00 — Four practical examples (fitness, Bible reading, porn, gratitude) 11:00 — Scripture insight: Habakkuk 2:2 12:15 — Reflection questions for clarity
13:30 — Closing & calls to action
Host Information Host:
Nate Whitson — Habits & Behavioral Change Coach for Christian men
Mission: Helping men align behaviors with beliefs to become the men God meant them to be—through honor, discipline, strength, and joy.
More about us: www.getinthefight.club
Links & Resources Mentioned
Fight Club for Christian Men
Scripture Reference: Habakkuk 2:2
Do This:
Identify one area of your life where you’ve been vague about change. Answer How, When, and Where for that habit today.
Subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don’t miss future episodes.
Visit www.getinthefight.club for free tools and resources, and check out www.getinthefight.club/fc to join our exclusive Fight Club for Christian men.
Share this episode with another man or on your social media to help us reach more Christian men!
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By Nate WhitsonWhy We Fail to Change — And How to Fix It
Want to change, but find yourself stuck? https://www.getinthefight.club/7 - Want to change but not sure how or what to do? Stop guessing and “trying harder” and, instead, get this FREE 7-Day Challenge delivered to your inbox to help you learn how to break bad habits, build better ones, and change - for good! You don’t have to stay stuck! You can become the man God meant for you to be: a better husband, father, and follower of Jesus!
This episode reveals the number one reason most men’s change efforts fail—and gives you three practical questions that turn vague intentions into real transformation.
Brief Summary
In this episode, Nate unpacks why so many Christian men fail to change, even when they deeply want to. The problem isn’t lack of desire—it’s lack of clarity.
Using a simple football analogy and biblical wisdom, Nate walks through three powerful questions that help you turn blurry hopes into concrete strategies.
You’ll discover how to move from “trying harder” to actually following through.
Key Takeaways
Clarity beats intention. Good intentions aren’t strategies. Most men fail to change not because they don’t want to, but because their plans are too vague.
Three questions create clarity:
Real-life examples show how to apply this to fitness, Bible reading, sexual purity, and gratitude. Simplicity prevents overwhelm, and specificity drives execution.
Habakkuk 2:2 shows the power of writing a clear vision so you can run with it.
Timestamps / Segment Guide
00:00 — Introduction + the quarterback analogy
02:30 — The real problem: vague change plans
04:45 — Why intentions and motivations aren’t enough
06:15 — The three clarifying questions: How, When, Where
08:00 — Four practical examples (fitness, Bible reading, porn, gratitude) 11:00 — Scripture insight: Habakkuk 2:2 12:15 — Reflection questions for clarity
13:30 — Closing & calls to action
Host Information Host:
Nate Whitson — Habits & Behavioral Change Coach for Christian men
Mission: Helping men align behaviors with beliefs to become the men God meant them to be—through honor, discipline, strength, and joy.
More about us: www.getinthefight.club
Links & Resources Mentioned
Fight Club for Christian Men
Scripture Reference: Habakkuk 2:2
Do This:
Identify one area of your life where you’ve been vague about change. Answer How, When, and Where for that habit today.
Subscribe and hit the notification bell so you don’t miss future episodes.
Visit www.getinthefight.club for free tools and resources, and check out www.getinthefight.club/fc to join our exclusive Fight Club for Christian men.
Share this episode with another man or on your social media to help us reach more Christian men!