We’ve all been there, the red flag is waving, glowing, practically screaming… and somehow, we still stay. In this episode, we dive into the real reasons we overlook the signs we know aren’t good for us. From loneliness and hopefulness to trauma patterns and the stories we tell ourselves, we unpack why our hearts sometimes override our logic. This conversation is raw, funny, and deeply relatable. We talk about the excuses we make, the patterns we repeat, and the moments we look back on like, “Girl… how did I miss THAT?” Most importantly, we explore how to recognize red flags sooner, trust our intuition, and choose ourselves before we choose potential. If you’ve ever ignored a red flag you could see from space, this episode is your reminder that you’re not alone — and you deserve better than bare‑minimum love.