In this episode of Your Aunty Talks Sex, I explore two questions that tug at something human: our need to define and our curiosity to decode.

First: I talk about how labels can offer emotional safety, belonging, and clarity — especially within LGBTQ+ identity. I share a moment from my own life when I asked myself, “Could it be more?” and how that brief curiosity helped me empathize with others navigating the spectrum of sexuality.

Then we shift to “How can I tell if he’s gay?” I unpack what’s really underneath that impulse to figure people out. Is it about attraction, identity, or just control? We talk about social cues, the history of coded signals, and how we might move from guessing to genuinely seeing one another.

No awkwardness. No hype. Just real talk.

Remember — we’re not here to be perfect. We’re here to be real.

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