The trauma that betrayal has in a person’s life damages our psychi, body, mind and soul. God calls us to deal with it. If we don’t, we end up in a place of unforgiveness. It builds bitterness, offence and resentment. Forgiveness is dismissing a debt – releasing your resentment. Some of us need to release the right to hear, “I’m sorry”. Forgiveness is not about the other person, it’s about you been free. Unforgiveness poisons us and blocks our relationship with God. Go to God, ask for faith. Forgiveness is a decision – make the decision. Grow in empathy, put yourself in the other person’s shoes. Don’t take revenge, God will deal with those who do wrong. And finally – let it go.