Almost daily I hear from a man, or men who are complaining about women not submitting and letting men lead. Many modern men claim that they want to lead, but they miss so many opportunities that their significant others present to them early on in the relationship that determine, for the woman, the man's willingness and/or ability to lead her. This leads to what men call a lack of "submission" or "non-submissive" women. Let's talk about this and clear things up.