You’ve been showing up. Training hard. Hitting your protein. Doing everything right.

So why do you look worse than you did a month ago?

If you’re over 40 and strength training, there’s a recovery strategy built into every well-designed program that most coaches skip, most influencers have never heard of, and your body needs more than it did at 25.

It’s called a deload — and it might be the missing piece between effort and results.

In this episode, Michelle breaks down:

* Why you look puffy and feel heavy at the end of a training block — even when you’ve been consistent

* Exactly how to execute a deload — sets, load, intensity, and what matters more than the gym this week

* How common beliefs about more training equals better results can hinder progress

* What a Deload week is and why it’s a game-changer for women over 40

* The physical and hormonal reasons why recovery is different for women in midlfe

* How to properly execute a Deload week for optimal results

* The surprising transformations that happen when you incorporate rest into your training cycle

* The importance of tailored programming for women in perimenopause and menopause

* Why most online fitness advice ignores biological differences and how to find credible guidance

* Simple tips for ensuring your Deload week resurfaces strength and definition

Timestamps:

00:00 - The truth about training less and looking better for women over 40

00:18 - Challenging the myth that more is always better in strength training

00:33 - The importance of a planned recovery week - Deloads explained

00:48 - Effects of accumulated fatigue and how it impacts your body

01:03 - How inflammation, water retention, and mirror perception relate to training fatigue

01:32 - The structure of a proper Deload week and its benefits

02:01 - The common mistake: skipping Deloads and winging workout routines

02:53 - The crucial need for Deloads in women in perimenopause and menopause

03:28 - How a Deload can reveal the results of your previous training efforts

03:51 - The physical changes and visible improvements during a Deload week

04:29 - The importance of consistent effort over five weeks to see results

04:38 - How to correctly execute your Deload week step-by-step

05:23 - Keeping your muscles energized and avoiding burnout during Deloads

05:52 - The core messages: sleep, protein, and light movement during recovery

06:01 - Why most fitness programs overlook how biological differences impact recovery

About Deep Kimchi:

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Michelle Burleson is a bestselling author, coach, former D1 athlete, and taekwondo black belt specializing in women’s midlife strength and nutrition at DeepKimchi.Substack.Com.

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