No More Breadcrumbs Podcast: A Christian Podcast for Women Healing From Toxic Love + Reclaiming Their Identity

Why Won’t He Choose Me? (And How to Stop Waiting to Be Picked) (Christian Women)


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Have you ever asked yourself: “Why won’t he choose me? Why won’t he commit? Why do I keep attracting unavailable men? Why do I feel like I’m not good enough for love?”

You are not alone. So many women spiral in these questions, waiting for a man to finally “pick” them. But here’s the truth: God already calls you chosen.

In this episode of No More Breadcrumbs, I’m breaking down:

✨ Why you keep being pulled toward emotionally unavailable men
✨ The real reason he won’t commit (and why it’s not your worth)
✨ How your self-concept and nervous system keep you stuck in chasing mode
✨ What changes when you stop waiting to be chosen and start living as already chosen by God

This is for Christian women who are tired of chasing, overthinking, and settling for breadcrumbs in love. It’s time to heal the root wound, rewire your identity, and experience the kind of love that reflects God’s truth about you.

👉 Ready to go deeper? Start with Rewritten — my self-led course to reprogram your love identity and stop the cycle of unworthy love.

👉 Or get on the waitlist for The Healing Room Live Coaching Group, where you’ll learn how to rewire your thoughts, regulate your body, and invite Jesus into your healing for lasting transformation.

 

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    No More Breadcrumbs Podcast: A Christian Podcast for Women Healing From Toxic Love + Reclaiming Their IdentityBy Kim Velez