We spend a little too much time worrying about how we must appear in the minds of others.  Don't let other people's opinions distort your reality. Be true to yourself. Be bold in pursuing your dreams. Be unapologetically you!  One of the biggest problems in our society is how we handle judgement and the opinions of others.   So many of you are in jobs you hate or buying expensive stuff you don’t need because you care about how other people view you … even though it’s not bringing you happiness or success.   My friends, you have one life.