Why do some people stay stuck in our minds long after they’ve hurt us? In Snack-Size Deep Dive 4 on the Things We Say in Therapy Podcast, we break down the psychology behind rumination, negativity bias, and why hate can feel impossible to let go of.

This episode explores:

• Why your brain obsesses over people you dislike
• The role of anxiety, control, and perceived threats
• Why rumination feels protective but actually keeps you stuck
• How to stop replaying the same thoughts without forcing them away
• Practical ways to redirect anger and reclaim your mental space

You don’t need closure, forgiveness, or justice to move on. You need awareness, acceptance, and new mental habits.

This is perfect for anyone struggling with intrusive thoughts, overthinking, resentment, or emotional burnout.

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